Wow, it amazes me how guys on bear sites are
antisocial. Sites like Grindr, Scruff,
and Growlr. All they care about is
looking at photos and not connecting with other guys. How are guys supposed to meet new friends if
they don’t be social-able. And when you
do talk to them they are either looking for sex or they are not interested in
you because they are single and they prefer others to be single as well. If you are partnered they don’t want to know
you and they wonder why you are on the site. You try to talk to them and they never respond to any of
your messages.
I noticed that after
experimenting with how many guys had responded to my replies, which was very
little amount. And those who had
responded to my replies are looking for partners and they don’t associate with
guys who are partners, because in their minds they think the partnered guys are
going behind their partner’s back. For
example: I was talking to a guy who
happens to be single and he did mention in his profile he was looking for
friends. So I wrote to him and we started
corresponding back and forth then he mentioned that he wasn’t interested in
partners talking to him. I didn’t think that was a problem by talking to single guys. But I told him that was fine. But if that’s the case, then all his friends
must be singled guys because he doesn’t want any association with partnered
guys. So in other words they don't have friends who are partners. I'm just saying.
What’s the point of having social media on the bear sites if
you can’t even socialize with other people?
