Why guys are concerned with other guys from far away?

It’s interesting how some guys are so concerned about meeting other guys that are not in their area. There was a guy who wrote a couple of blogs which I had read. He wrote this one blog stating that he was wondering why guys that are living in the same area as you don’t bother talking to you but the guys who live outside the country or state are the ones who are interested. Why do guys feel this way? Why do guys worry about not meeting guys in their area? All guys have to do is log onto the website and go to the advance options for searching in your area. Guy, when go online to one of the bear sites, you are going to experience and expect to see and hear guys coming from all over the world. Everybody knows that you can’t judge someone that you like just by looking at their pictures. Pictures could be deceiving. That’s why it’s important for people to read someone’s profile fully.

He also mentioned in his blog that he was concerned on that he would contact someone and asking how his day was going or a simple good morning, that person will not respond to him and sometimes takes that person a day or two to respond back to him. He also mentioned about webcamming and that it is 2011 and how everybody could purchase a webcam at WalMart. I guess he was implying that people could put up a picture of themselves on their profiles by using their webcam. Guys like him should understand that guys don’t spend much time on profiles 24/7 and also not many people are interested in webcamming and taking pictures. I believe that there are guys who like to play games and all that. But hey, some people are camera shy and if they do respond to you straight away or without their profile photo; it’s your choice whether or not to connect with them. He chose to complain about it.

Sometimes guys online are too hard on themselves that all they know what to do is worry and complain about other men who are not in their city or not interested in them. This is very unhealthy feeling. It must be one’s self conscious that they would think that guys who are close to them not want to talk to them. It’s like that everywhere. I'm not sure why guys always say something like "why are all the good looking guys so far away" or why they can't find anyone in their neighborhood. The internet is a world wide web and you will see you will come across with people throughout the world which is distracting to where you are located so you are going to experience meeting people all over the world. Have you even typed in your neighborhood and started to chat them? You could find someone if you really want to and it doesn’t have to be serious. It’s always good to be friends first with someone. Guys are soo concerned on getting into someone’s pants for a quick one. That’s another thing, not every guy you meet are going to want to get into one’s pants. I had stopped looking for love and it took a long time for me to realize that I wasn't having any connection, so I stopped searching. I decided to allow the love come to me naturally.

And guys, when you write to someone, and they don’t respond to you right away (perhaps you see them online, or ) don’t get pissed off and annoyed because they are not responding to you because a lot of guys like myself stay logged on to certain websites and not be at the computer. There are people who are very busy with their lifestyles that they don’t have time to write you back straight away so take it easy and wait for them to have that time to respond to you. If they see you are trying to make a connection with them they may find you being a pest or harassing them and that will push them away.