I was on Facebook for a little while and after making conversation with a few guys, I started thinking about the bears. When I was growing up I was the only one in the family who was becoming very hairy. I was always a heavy kid and was picked on as well.
I didn't know about the bear community that there other gay hairy men until I was like 26 years old even though I had fancied some of the big bear type guys. I had also known bears as being big husky and hairy with goatees and beards. It wasn't until like 2005 or something like that I started seeing muscle bears. You know, it just seems that the muscle bears are destorying the symbol of the bear image. I personally never saw the muscled type guys as part of the community and before you knew it, they were taking over the meaning of the bear name. The muscle bears are pretty much into themselves and they don't want to know you if you are overweight and not fit like they are. They feed on compliments and all that. They even turn the other way and let bigger bears down and not want to have associate with other bears. What's that all about? I think that the muscle bears are giving the meaning of bear community a bad name. If they are calling themselves muscle bears, shouldn't the bear community become as one rather than classing each other? C'mon now, give me a break.
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