Playing the game

Have you ever heard of or done the game?  You might had.  If you haven't heard of the game, it is where you could be able to see who had view your profile on a bear site (ie. bear411, bearforest) and a guy looks at your profile, and you could be able to see that guy had viewed you.  Yes, it is pretty much childish.

But you know something, many guys cannot be bothered with that kind of game.  And don't be upset if you are one of those guys who view that guy's profile and expect him to view your profile to what they call "return the favor" and have them start writing to you.  You'd be waiting a long time probably.  If you are trying to catch the person attention, write to them.  Its really that simple.  What's the worse could happen?  That guy may not respond to you, or they may not be interested in it.

You know, some guys really can't be bothered looking at profiles and they just want to talk to normal everyday guys without any strings attached who just want to chat and hang out for a beer or dinner.  Not every guy on the website wants sex all the time.