Father's Day

Wishing you all gay father's a wonderful father's day.

Enjoy your day!

Do tattoos make a men more sexy?

Quick answer to that I would think is yes.  Of course, it depends on what the tattoo is.  If it's something normal, with a meaning, I'm totally up for it. But when it's a hello kitty he got when he was drunk, then he's just a fool.  A tattoo should be something you get for yourself, not to show it off, which a lot of men do.  If you get a tattoo, you have to love it for a long time so you know what you want.  I mean I have a tattoo on my back blade of comedy and tragedy masks with a ribbon around it saying laugh now cry later.  The reason for me getting this tattoo is because I enjoy performing arts.

TATTOO IS ART.  Simple as that.  They are just so beautiful to see don't get me wrong, and I'm sure I'm not the only one that thinks so.  Have you ever seen a guy across the room that’s pretty decent looking, and then you catch a glimpse of a tattoo sneaking out from underneath his collar or sleeve. All of a sudden, this pretty decent looking man increases in attractive points. You know what I’m talking about; men with tattoos have that special something.

But why do men perceive with tattoos to be tougher or more handsome?  Many get tattoos to look cool or badass to impress but I really don't think a tattoo is going to change anything.

Sure, deep down we all know that tattoos hurt, but unless the ink is spectacular, even among tattooed folk, our first reaction is hardly to think about how much pain a person endured to 'earn their ink.'

We've created a culture that depicts tough, rugged men as having tattoos. When we portray men in any media, we tend to pick the handsome ones to display. So, over time, you get used to associating the chiseled physique and general good looks with the tattoos that often adorn these figures.

Coming out: Busted!

I never came out, but more like ratted so to speak.  I wasn't ready to come out at 21.

Twenty-five years ago, on an Easter the family gathered around the apartment having a good time.  Behind my back, my brother went looking for playboy magazines in my bedroom and instead he saw male porn magazines like Honcho, Torso, and Inches.  He talked to me with the door closed where I confided in him that I was gay, I couldn't deny it since he found the gay magazines. He thought it was a phase I was going through.  He just wasn't convinced until I showed him my journal, which I had been writing about my homosexuality.

Moments later my name was called in the bedroom by my mother.  I went into the bedroom and the door was closed behind me.  I didn't know my brother was behind the door.  She confronted me about the gay magazines.

Awkward moment!

Right there I knew I was busted.  No thanks to my brother because he ended up telling my mother and the word got around at the end of the day with the family.

The next day all our friends knew.  They all were comfortable about it but it was taking my mother awhile to understand it and eventually accepted.  My father on the other hand, I'm pretty sure he knows because today he is convinced I am adopted.

Thank you member for submitting your coming out story.

Happy St Patricks Day

Happy Saint Patricks Day !

Saint Patrick's Day is a public holiday in the Republic of Ireland, Northern Ireland, the Canadian province of Newfoundland and Labrador, and the British Overseas Territory of Montserrat. It is also widely celebrated by the Irish diaspora around the world, especially in Great Britain, Canada, the United States, Argentina, Australia, and New Zealand. Saint Patrick's Day is celebrated in more countries than any other national festival. Modern celebrations have been greatly influenced by those of the Irish diaspora, particularly those that developed in North America. In recent years, there has been criticism of Saint Patrick's Day celebrations for having become too commercialized and for fostering negative stereotypes of the Irish.

Enjoy and have fun.  

Bear Sites

Wow, it amazes me how guys on bear sites are antisocial.  Sites like Grindr, Scruff, and Growlr.  All they care about is looking at photos and not connecting with other guys.  How are guys supposed to meet new friends if they don’t be social-able.  And when you do talk to them they are either looking for sex or they are not interested in you because they are single and they prefer others to be single as well.  If you are partnered they don’t want to know you and they wonder why you are on the site.  You try to talk to them and they never respond to any of your messages.  

I noticed that after experimenting with how many guys had responded to my replies, which was very little amount.   And those who had responded to my replies are looking for partners and they don’t associate with guys who are partners, because in their minds they think the partnered guys are going behind their partner’s back.  For example:  I was talking to a guy who happens to be single and he did mention in his profile he was looking for friends.  So I wrote to him and we started corresponding back and forth then he mentioned that he wasn’t interested in partners talking to him.  I didn’t think that was a problem by talking to single guys.  But I told him that was fine.  But if that’s the case, then all his friends must be singled guys because he doesn’t want any association with partnered guys.  So in other words they don't have friends who are partners.  I'm just saying.  

What’s the point of having social media on the bear sites if you can’t even socialize with other people? 

Give that person a hug

Morning fellow bears!   I hope you are all having a wonderful start of the year. Today in this blog I am going to talk about hugs.  Yes, I know its a silly topic to talk about.  But when was the last time you hugged someone?  A hug means a lot of things as well as to a person: when they are sad, your happy to see that person, a lovely gift, love and affection, being thankful, eve a simple hello or goodbye.  These shows appreciation, comfort and gratitude.  A hug is probably the most widespread way of showing that you care.  Its such a wonderful feeling to wrap your arms around someone feeling their warm body pressed against yours.

When someone is feeling sad, make their day by giving them a hug.  This will show them that you understand they are going through and that you care.  So give that beautiful person a hug !

Bragging Chocolate Thunder

I talk with one of my bodybuilding friends who is the chocolate thunder of bodybuilding.  Very nice guy.  I do enjoy hearing his stories and achievements how he used to be a 150lb and now is an escort as well as a bodybuilder.  

He went to this place called 10" and Over" meaning cocks are 10 inches and over, and was meeting at the Clarion Hotel which approximately 48 people attended.

Its nice to hear that he gets touched right on the head of his penis or his entire cock grabbed grabbed by random strangers.  But he mentioned to me that they were probably curious BUT inappropriate.  Inappropriate but considering that he kept bragging how big his cock is 13.5inches long.  So I understand the curiosity for someone who kept grabbing 13.5inch cock.  Could you blame that those who wanted to touch his big sausage?  I would too.  Besides, you don't see that length of cock very often so yes I would had loved to see that for myself as well.

I mean he kept bragged about having that 13.5 Inch X 8 Inch Penis weighs 6 pounds alone and his Balls (Scrotum) weighs 8 pounds alone (so he says), as a bodybuilder, his Quads (Thighs) always rub against his balls leaving a chaffed irritated red mark.

I mean, don't get me wrong about him having such great looking balls.  But after several attempts to send me his shaft, he ignores the answer to that which makes me believe that he is all talk.

Your talking to my roommate

Many of you know me as a very nice person and friendly and make people feel comfortable.  Well, I was looking for friends in Ireland on bearwww and started to introduce myself to a few guys in Dublin.

I was talking to this one guy from Dublin Ireland (which I had met a few guys from Dublin) and we were making progress on friendship.  He was really nice to talk to.  He was telling me all these nice things to me how great a person and sexy I was.  I thought he was very sweet of him to say such things to me and did thank him for the kind words.

He got upset because I was talking to his roommate.  I personally didn't think there was any harm in it and so what if I was talking to his roommate.  It wasn't like we were dating or anything.  Because of him getting offensive about that I was talking to someone else who happens to be his roommate, I knew that was a red flag.  It seemed that he wanted me all to himself.  I had to cease further contact with him because of his issue with me talking to someone else.

ARE YOU A BELLY PERSON?

Do you have a big belly or attracted to guys with big bellies that just drives you bonkers?

...not only that but makes great lovers too.

Why do some of us feel attracted to those with big bellies?  Is it the hangover the belt?  Is it because they are bigger than you?

A total of 200 men were surveyed. Researchers ultimately found that men with a higher BMI (i.e. bellies) lasted an average of 7.3 minutes in bed. The slimmer of the group barely lasted two minutes, and were more likely to suffer from premature ejaculation.

So let’s say a guy has sex 100 times annually. If he has a belly, he’s going to spend approximately eight hours — an entire work day — more per year penetrating his lover than if he has a six-pack. That’s a substantial amount of time.

The reason for the dramatically higher sexual endurance? More belly fat, scientists say, means a man has more estradiol, a female sex hormone that helps to inhibit orgasm.

So eat up, fellas. Start packing that estradiol. Because when it comes to sex, fat is the new thin.