Happy New Year 2018

RIP Michael Delmonte

It has become a shock in the middle of the night to find out that we lost another brother.  David, his brother, informed everybody that he passed away fighting against cancer the afternoon of 10/18/2017, and is now free of pain and can be there with his mother.

Michael had a heart of gold.  We talked occasionally from time to time and had been a great person and friend.

RIP Michael.  Sleep well.

Father's Day

Wishing you all gay father's a wonderful father's day.

Enjoy your day!

Happy St Patricks Day

Happy Saint Patricks Day !

Saint Patrick's Day is a public holiday in the Republic of Ireland, Northern Ireland, the Canadian province of Newfoundland and Labrador, and the British Overseas Territory of Montserrat. It is also widely celebrated by the Irish diaspora around the world, especially in Great Britain, Canada, the United States, Argentina, Australia, and New Zealand. Saint Patrick's Day is celebrated in more countries than any other national festival. Modern celebrations have been greatly influenced by those of the Irish diaspora, particularly those that developed in North America. In recent years, there has been criticism of Saint Patrick's Day celebrations for having become too commercialized and for fostering negative stereotypes of the Irish.

Enjoy and have fun.  

Give that person a hug

Morning fellow bears!   I hope you are all having a wonderful start of the year. Today in this blog I am going to talk about hugs.  Yes, I know its a silly topic to talk about.  But when was the last time you hugged someone?  A hug means a lot of things as well as to a person: when they are sad, your happy to see that person, a lovely gift, love and affection, being thankful, eve a simple hello or goodbye.  These shows appreciation, comfort and gratitude.  A hug is probably the most widespread way of showing that you care.  Its such a wonderful feeling to wrap your arms around someone feeling their warm body pressed against yours.

When someone is feeling sad, make their day by giving them a hug.  This will show them that you understand they are going through and that you care.  So give that beautiful person a hug !

Bragging Chocolate Thunder

I talk with one of my bodybuilding friends who is the chocolate thunder of bodybuilding.  Very nice guy.  I do enjoy hearing his stories and achievements how he used to be a 150lb and now is an escort as well as a bodybuilder.  

He went to this place called 10" and Over" meaning cocks are 10 inches and over, and was meeting at the Clarion Hotel which approximately 48 people attended.

Its nice to hear that he gets touched right on the head of his penis or his entire cock grabbed grabbed by random strangers.  But he mentioned to me that they were probably curious BUT inappropriate.  Inappropriate but considering that he kept bragging how big his cock is 13.5inches long.  So I understand the curiosity for someone who kept grabbing 13.5inch cock.  Could you blame that those who wanted to touch his big sausage?  I would too.  Besides, you don't see that length of cock very often so yes I would had loved to see that for myself as well.

I mean he kept bragged about having that 13.5 Inch X 8 Inch Penis weighs 6 pounds alone and his Balls (Scrotum) weighs 8 pounds alone (so he says), as a bodybuilder, his Quads (Thighs) always rub against his balls leaving a chaffed irritated red mark.

I mean, don't get me wrong about him having such great looking balls.  But after several attempts to send me his shaft, he ignores the answer to that which makes me believe that he is all talk.

ARE YOU A BELLY PERSON?

Do you have a big belly or attracted to guys with big bellies that just drives you bonkers?

...not only that but makes great lovers too.

Why do some of us feel attracted to those with big bellies?  Is it the hangover the belt?  Is it because they are bigger than you?

A total of 200 men were surveyed. Researchers ultimately found that men with a higher BMI (i.e. bellies) lasted an average of 7.3 minutes in bed. The slimmer of the group barely lasted two minutes, and were more likely to suffer from premature ejaculation.

So let’s say a guy has sex 100 times annually. If he has a belly, he’s going to spend approximately eight hours — an entire work day — more per year penetrating his lover than if he has a six-pack. That’s a substantial amount of time.

The reason for the dramatically higher sexual endurance? More belly fat, scientists say, means a man has more estradiol, a female sex hormone that helps to inhibit orgasm.

So eat up, fellas. Start packing that estradiol. Because when it comes to sex, fat is the new thin.

Goodbye 2015

I tell ya, isn't it amazing how time really does fly within a blink of an eye? It feels like just yesterday that we were celebrating 2015! But alas, it's been a good year! :)

And since we'll be welcoming 2016 tomorrow, I thought it would be nice to hear what you all have for 2016.   What are your goals do you have to start the New Years?

Lets go out with a bang and make 2016 a great year for all of us, new goals, new friends, etc.

Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas to you all!

We hope you have a wonderful and safe Christmas holiday and a Happy New Year.  This will probably be our last entry for the year as we are going and have been very busy this time of year.  So with that said we will see you after the new years.  

Condoms

Wow after discussing with gay guys and how they feel about condoms, interesting how they responded. Many of the gay guys say they don't like wearing condoms as it makes them feel uncomfortable.  I know that some guys feel that condoms may not feel all that great but gay guys should use them anyway to keep from spreading other diseases which the person may have.  The diseases continues to increase.  so its good on the safe side to wear a condom when you are with someone, especially if you don't really know the person.  But that is the problem in today's world that many of the gay guys don't want to chat and get to know you sort of thing but to only want a quick fuck.  How do you know if the person doesn't have an STD, Hepatitis, Genital Herpes, or Gonorrhea or other transmitted infections.  You don't. So why put yourself in that risk before you know its then too late.  I mean, the problem with today's society is that a lot of the gay men don't like quick chat or even talk to know the person unless it has something to do with sex and what they want to do to you and want to get together and make the sex happen.

A member of Facebook went through a safer sex training program, I believe it was called men in touch.  At this program they taught guys to put on some lube in the tip of the inside of the condom.  It suppose to improve the sensation of it.

Condoms have latex or powder which guys can be allergic to, which is why they don't wear the condoms at all.  Is there another condom that isn't latex or powder?

I met someone

I finally met someone.  Yes, you did.  All the time tears streamed down your face with sadness, you wondered why you haven't met that special someone in your life and what you are doing wrong.

Just when you thought that things are not going your way, that special someone contacts you through our facebook page.   You see?  There you were crying over nothing.  I knew you would eventually meet that someone in your life.    All things come to a good end in your life.  All you have to do now is take things slow, and just enjoy each other that you are a part of each other's life.

I am very pleased to hear for those who are members to Bear Talk Woof had met your special man.  Thank you all who made Bear Talk Woof happen.  Something that even I didn't expect for guys to meet other guys and having that special relationship.

Weekend photos

Hey there everyone
I hope you are doing well and having a great holiday weekend.  Well I have made a decision on photos onto the group in Facebook.  To make things fair I had decided to accept photos on weekends plus holidays, and during the week we could have chatting after-all that's what the group was created for Bears Talking and not just submitting photos as it is not a photos gallery.  If you want to submit photos during the week, I had created a tumblr page and feel free to send your photos to beartalkwoof@gmail.com

So if you happen to post a pic on the group and waiting for approval, don't take offense because its been deleted.   I don't want the group to be just pictures.  I rather have some participating and interaction.

Robert looking for friends possible relationship

Robert Whitaker is Single and he's looking for other singles out there for friends and turn into a possible relationship.  He's willing to relocate for that right person.  

Could you be that person?  Only way to find out.  Contact him and make your acquaintance to him. He's very friendly and down to earth.

do you have any questions?  Just ask him on Bear Talk Woof Facebook page to get in touch with him.

Brad Rigney case

The murder trial of Gerald Allen Benjamins, who is accused of killing 36-year-old Brad Rigney will not be held until September 14 and has been set as a new trial date after Benjamins’ attorney asked for a continuance in the trial, which was supposed to begin last month.

It will take place almost a year after Benjamins’ arrest. He was arrested Monday, Sept. 29, 2014, in Jeffersonville, Ind., after he was picked up at a soup kitchen in the southern Indiana town outside of Louisville.

According to RPD detective Kenneth Edmonds, Rigney and Benjamins met over the Internet and were online acquaintances.


In the early part of the investigation into the murder, Benjamins was identified as a possible suspect and interviewed by Edmonds on Jan. 17, 2014 and some things that Benjamin said just didn't add up.

Rigney, who was deaf, lived alone at the Rhea Blvd. residence. His body was first discovered by his brother and sister-in-law, who then called 911.

An autopsy was performed on Sunday, Dec. 29, 2013, and the preliminary indication was that Rigney had died from blunt force trauma to the head.

RIP Greg Garcia

Hello my fellow bears!

Just found out we lost another brother in our bear community.  Greg Garcia.  Yep.  He had passed away.  I had heard from friends that there was some talk about Greg having some cancer.  Not only that he passed away but this was also his birthday.


MAY YOU REST IN PEACE BROTHER

Xander's powerlifting

Well, last night I had discovered that Xander Beaverhousen has been powerlifting for about a month now.  He mentioned on his Facebook that he was feeling pain in every muscle of his body and I asked if he it was from working out.  So we had a discussion and had a lovely conversation too about this topic.

Xander Beaverhousen:  I am doing powerlifting in a gym in Glasgow

Bear Talk Woof:  Are you really?  That's awesome.  when did you start?

XB:  Last month !  I am a freshman lol

BTW:  a freshman?  haha

XB:  Some days ago I had my first deadlift

BTW:  I wish I could do deadlifts without back problems.  It does get frustrated

XB:  Oh shit i am sorry

BTW:  I have to take morphine to ease the pain sometimes.  But it still hurts a bit.

XB:  Did you check

BTW:  I want to get bigger and leaner.  I am trying to do what I can with this back problem.
I hope you do this powerlifting thingy.  You could do this.  Just stay focused on it.  Just don't break your back.

XB:  No I am going to be careful, but I wanna get bigger and stronger

BTW:  yeah so do I.  What made you think of powerlifting?

XB:  Being able to lift those kind of weights and feel the very extreme limit, I wanna touch that limit.

BTW:  Do you feel that you want to compete in the worlds strongest man competition?

XB:  That would be amazing but I know there is a huge journey to do, still I like to dream about it  always having in mind the hard work that has to be done

BTW:  That's understanding.  Its best to start from the bottom and work your way up.  When you think about it, does seem a long ways to go, but give it some time and you will get there.

XB:  I am so focused! I feel amazing

BTW:  What is your ultimate goal as a coming to be a powerlifter?

XB:  I didn't think about any goal for now !! Just prepare my body and then I will see.

BTW:  Have you ever been fatigue and trying to get yourself motivated?  What kinds of suppliments and foods are you taking in?

XB:  My supplements and food starts this week as they are preparing a plan for me.

BTW:  So when you started, you only took the regular food you have been taking and just lifting?

XB:  yes.

BTW:  Do you have before and after shots?

XB:  What do you mean.

BTW:  Its good to take before and after shots of your results to see the progress you are doing so far.

XB:  Ah ok no I didn't but from this week I am going to go even more often, And I will.

BTW:  This is brilliant.  I am looking forward to hearing your results.  You should do a blog on this experience.

XB:  My first ever deadlift made me feel great, Maybe I will.

BTW:  How much could you deadlift now?

XB:  I just made deadlift once and was 270lbs x10 x6.  I wanted try more heavy but the instructor told me that is better to go easy and get use to it.

BTW:  what does that mean?  You did 10 reps of 270 and then 6 reps of 270?  that's what I am understanding.  Yes you would need to go easy with your power lifting no matter how good you feel, especially as a freshman powerlifter.

XB:  No I did 10 reps of 270 then a little break and again 10 270 for six times

BTW:  That's fantastic.

XB:  Do you think?  I dunno lol   I am a freshman

BTW:  That's a lot of lifting for that much pounds for a freshman, I think.

XB:  The instructor told me the same.   I felt great.

BTW:  You will feel that way too because you are soo into this powerlifting.  Don't be sad or upset when you are going to come across with those bad days because that will bound to come up every once in a while.

XB:  I know I am prepared and nothing can make me stop!! I am so focused like in anything ever before.

BTW:  That's great.

Good luck to Xander and his powerlifting.  I am sure that he will do well in it.  

NOT Free

I am not sure what he is talking about because Bruizr is not free.  If you take a look at the bruizr site it is free but for only 30 days then you have to pay that's where he catches you.  It just seems that Bruizr is a little desperate and having other bears giving out false information.  After Scott's dramatic episodes, he showed his true colors to the bear community, showing immaturity, name calling, expressing hatred toward other bears in the group as well as outside of the web site.  That's not being a responsible web host.  

Bears P-town photos 2012

Okay guys, we finally gotten a hold of some photos of bears p-town 2012 from one of the photography face-book pages.  Has anyone went to P-town?  If you would like to share more photos of the events, let us know on our facebook page so we could add them to the blogs.  If you want anything to say as well feel free inform us about it.  We'd be happy to add it to the blogs.

Bear Week Provincetown 2012

In case some of you might had forgotten, Bear week for Provincetown has been going on. July 7 -15th, 2012. We have some quite a few bears who are on Facebook that went to P-town and they have been enjoying their time.

"Loving it, great friends, meeting new bears & having an all around great time", a fellow bear said.

Even though some are having such a wonderful time there, others cannot make it to be with other fellow bears to the all these events.

I would hope that one day that P-town would be able to broadcast live on blogtv, or livestream or something like that on the Internet. I think it would also be some entertainment for those who missed out on it.  We will try to get a hold of some photos of this event.  In the meantime here is a photos of you guys of these sexy bears.

Affection in Public

Do you have a fear of kissing your partner in public? Is something holding you back from holding hands, or kissing your partner or boyfriend out in public something that you always wanted to do without fear?

It still amazes me that some of the guys in the gay community are still shy and feel awkward being affection with their boyfriend or partner in public. Why? Because they still have that fear of being judged by other people who are not like them.

I personally don't give a fuck what other people think when I kiss someone other guy and I don't mind kissing my partner in public. However, my partner has a problem with that. I am not sure why he feels this awkwardness out in public.  Maybe he doesn't want to have cause any problems with other people.  He is a quiet and keep things to himself.  We just recently moved to Maine and I know it is not the problem.  He always felt that since I moved to Washington to be with my partner.

I used to date this big bear before I met my partner and at that time I lived in Arizona. We would hang out and kiss in public. At first I felt funny but after thinking about it and hiding everything for so many years, it really got to me.  I thought to myself, why should I feel awkward, insecure, and afraid of kissing someone that I care about in public when there are many heterosexuals out there that does the same thing. What annoys me is that heterosexuals would stare at two homosexuals in a different way with disgust.  I also thought that these people definitely have a problem with that.  It is not you that is the problem, is the person that is staring at you that has that problem.  To me, I wasn't goign to change my ways so it would suite these heterosexuals.  Oh hell no.

THIS IS OUT TIME. This is the time for us to stop feeling scared, and insecure going outside becoming affectionate and kissing that someone that we care about. Its not fare on yourself to feel this way. Do you see us gay men looking at heterosexuals with disgust and say something? No of course not. And they don't feel insecured about that either. Haven't you noticed that? So why feel insecure about yourself kissing, holding hands outside in public?