Knowing the person first

Always know what the person before you set some kind of commitment and it could be anything from entering the house, or knowing the person online or whichever.  First off, I would never bring anyone in to my own home without knowing what the person is like. No fucken way.  You don't know what the person is like behind closed doors.  They could be psychos to all you know.

A friend of mine wrote  "I was just discussing that with a receptionist at my thyroid specialist. Years ago my boyfriend had put an ad on Craigslist to sell his daughter's Beanie Babies. A woman called and was interested so we agreed to have her over to show her the collection. My boyfriend decided to also put out some other things to sell. At one point she saw that in a bedroom I had my computer on, and asked if she could send a quick email. I said "ok" and kept an eye on her here and there(I did have a purse hanging on the inside doorknob against the door). All of a sudden she bolted out the front door and had her ride waiting. It wasn't until later that I noticed my purse was gone. The next day we got a call from a bank a few blocks away saying they found my purse in their parking lot. I went to pick it up and EVERYTHING was still in my purse! I didn't have any cash(wasn't working), and had no money in the bank. So, luckily the joke was on her! I had filed a report with the police and she was caught and sent to prison and we both had to separately identify her. Unfortunately there were also several other people there with a similar story. She had ripped those people off too!"

With her story, it was selling stuff on Craigslist.  Like I said, it could be anything and this could lead to danger.  Even a new roommate.  You could be talking to that person for a year or two and still haven't met face to face.  In reality, you really don't know the person until you meet him face to face to know what that person is like.  You may think you know the person but you don't.

Here is an example and I learned from it.  There was an Australian I met online and we hit it off very well.  After a year of talking to Clinton, he was talking about medications he was taking and didn't have the money for it.  So I threw money over to him as well as gifts.  When he got the money he was calling all the names in the books and how worthless I was.  Well put it this way, I hope Clinton "did" use the money for his medications because he needed help.

So with that said, be sure you know what you are getting into.  Make sure you know the person before you go into the deep end for some form of relationship.

Robert looking for friends possible relationship

Robert Whitaker is Single and he's looking for other singles out there for friends and turn into a possible relationship.  He's willing to relocate for that right person.  

Could you be that person?  Only way to find out.  Contact him and make your acquaintance to him. He's very friendly and down to earth.

do you have any questions?  Just ask him on Bear Talk Woof Facebook page to get in touch with him.

Does age matter?

This is a question that a lot of guys ask.  Its really quite simple. Everybody is different on their likes and dislikes.  Age is really just a number.  If you could make it work then more power to you, but if you have a problem with the age gap, then don't bother getting into the relationship because you are not only hurting him, but you would be hurting yourself and preparing yourself to failure.

Many guys could be mindless and would only think of two things, age and sex.  Also many guys who seek a big age gap are most likely the younger guys who are looking for those Daddy figures so they could take care of younger guys and provide for them.  That's called using.  Go find a job, earn your own pay so you don't have to rely on other people for your failures.

Of course you get those guys who want the same age so that they could have their boyfriends for a longer time.  And that's true we all want to keep our boyfriends, husbands, as long as we possibly can but relationships don't last forever.

The fact is you love who you love.  Age shouldn't matter to you as it shouldn't be the center of the relationship.  What should matter are common interests, your likes, dislikes, favorites and so on.  Yes you will find a few uncommon things between the two of you but thats all about learning from each other and making that connection.  That should be the most important rather than worrying about a number.

Life goes on

You sometimes when you are in a relationship, you go through up and downs between laughter and crying, supporting and departing.  But what happens when things aren't working out and you both have to break up permanently?  You still love the guy but there is nothing you could do about it.

So you spend your time sobbing and you don't want to go anywhere because things aren't the same like they used to be.  You think about what ever happened to the happy times you both have.  What went wrong? he doesn't talk to you anymore.

So what do we do in this situation?  Well you can't make someone love you again.  you have to let it go naturally.  Hey who knows.  You may want to just let things lay for now.  You never know what tomorrow brings.  A little break can be a good thing.  Just because you both broken up doesn't mean you can't talk and be friends like you always have been.  The only difference is that you both aren't dating each other.

Its time to move on, and stay in the present moment and create things that really make you happy.  Get out of that bedroom.  Start living your life again.  You will get better and know that things are going to be okay with you.

Now, are you ready to leave the room?  Go for it.

NEVER RUSH INTO RELATIONSHIPS

Not only he was shocked but I was shocked but am not surprised because stories like this normally happen when you rush into relationships.

My facebook friend Rowdy was discussing on his facebook ball that he met a guy and the guy begged for him to move, so Rowdy sold or trashed or given away everything that he owned, even his kittens and moved up to be with the guy.

In this situation, it is typical for when you meet someone that one way or another one of you are going to end up moving in with the other and its normally the one who is not going to move at all no matter what and tries to persuade the other one to move up to the other.

Apparently they were in therapy and the guy just decided to say it, something that Rowdy didn't expect.  So since the guy blurred out what he needed to say and brings not only sadness but confusion as well I'm sure.  It actually turns out that the guy was still married to his ex lover and Rowdy was just being used as an unpaid Butler or housekeeper and extended stay boots call.  Of course, Rowdy needed to speak up and said something in terms like he has discarded him like a used Keenex.

So it just might be that he has to start all over again with nothing with him.  I am sure that he had done this before too because it is usual that things like this happen and leaving the person in the gutter.

This is wrong for someone to be fucking up with someone else's life like that.  It shows "LOW CLASS".  It just shows you who you know and who you don't.  But the fact is that you have true friends that you could rely on with support.  Always know that everything will be okay.

Bear On The Prowler

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