This is a question that a lot of guys ask. Its really quite simple. Everybody is different on their likes and dislikes. Age is really just a number. If you could make it work then more power to you, but if you have a problem with the age gap, then don't bother getting into the relationship because you are not only hurting him, but you would be hurting yourself and preparing yourself to failure.
Many guys could be mindless and would only think of two things, age and sex. Also many guys who seek a big age gap are most likely the younger guys who are looking for those Daddy figures so they could take care of younger guys and provide for them. That's called using. Go find a job, earn your own pay so you don't have to rely on other people for your failures.
Of course you get those guys who want the same age so that they could have their boyfriends for a longer time. And that's true we all want to keep our boyfriends, husbands, as long as we possibly can but relationships don't last forever.
The fact is you love who you love. Age shouldn't matter to you as it shouldn't be the center of the relationship. What should matter are common interests, your likes, dislikes, favorites and so on. Yes you will find a few uncommon things between the two of you but thats all about learning from each other and making that connection. That should be the most important rather than worrying about a number.
I would say it matters if there's like more than 20 years if you want a big brother type relationship because the taste in things like music is different. Actually, if both people are mature enough in attitude it would matter a whole lot less. Learning a new person is an adventure.
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