One side stories

When you are friends with someone, its always easy to take that person's side over the person you are not friends with at all.  By this and hearing that person's side is only partial or biased to hear on one person's view on things without investigating the whole scenerio.  When that friend takes that person's side its favors to them and makes the person feel more powerful.  But it truely doesn't.  The friend is only hearing his side of the story without knowing the FULL STORY.

For example

On Facebook a guy name Jeff was talking to someone and they were fighting with their words back and forth.  People are reading and giving their opinion about what they think.  Before you know it that person is taking off the friend's list by Jeff because he couldn't handle the fighting.  Jeff is angry and pissed off.  Jeff then posts something negative on his profile and other people responds to his thread and how much of an asshole that person was, or they may yeah, he sounds crazy, or something like that.

People can easily jump into conclusions without knowing the full story about things.  So when Jeff posts something on his profile, gives him that power to his friends and getting replies that would build up his credibility that he is right.  By posting something negative about the person tells me that this person has hate in him which is why Jeff posted negative things on his thread.

So with that said, always take in both sides into consideration because it would give you a better idea what the full story is about and then make your opinion about.  Don't judge a book by its cover as its not always going to be that true book.

Bear Talk Woof turns Secret

Bear Talk Woof needed to turn their facebook page into "secret" group as it came to some of our attention that some of the members in the group are juveniles and we need to get find these individuals and through them out of the group.  New rules for the group is as follows


A little something to keep in mind.
1. THIS IS NOT A PORN SITE, SO NO NUDITY. PERIOD. The reason why this is also we don't want you to get banned due to Facebook's policy.
2. This group is discussion, and not just about photos.
3. You are welcome to come and go as you please.
4. Respect the group.
5. This group is 18+ and over so if you are not that age, PLEASE LEAVE we are not tolerate for your actions for being on this group.
6. ADMINISTRATORS BE CAREFUL WHO YOU APPROVE, make sure you check profiles that means check the date the account has been opened, if they have pictures of themselves, any information that will help them to get into the group.
7. New description will be changed.
8. We all know that everybody is different, so if you are offended because someone said something you disapprove or dislike what they say there are two option, you could a) leave the group, or b) hide the thread so that you don't have to see it on your side.
9. NO FEMALES

Facebook Games

Some people enjoy Facebook games.  It does keep a person from being bored.  But what if you are stuck in one of the games and you need help.  What do you do then?  You request people to join that particular game as well as getting their help.

But lately I have been seeing lots of bears complaining about Facebook game requests.  It just seems to be a big issue.  Their attitude tends to boil up and then they post a message on their wall something like if the next person he send a game request they will be deleted from the friend list.

People who play Facebook games, don't mean any harm of sending game request and its not to be rude or ignorant.  But there are ways around for those who do not want those certain game request.  You can block the game on your Facebook page.  And I'm going to tell you how you could do this so you won't receive any request from that particular game.

1.  Log in to your facebook account

2. When getting a facebook game request, click on the game request, then look for the right side there is going to be a listing of things visit app page, share, block, report a problem. 

3.  click Block.

PROBLEM SOLVED.

Reminder for our show

Hey there guys,
Bear Talk Woof needs to start working on our shows.  I just have been pretty busy with my classes and many other things that has been keeping me busy and it has been hectic too.  But in the meantime, be sure to add yourselves to the Bear Talk Woof on blogtalkradio.  If you are interested in coming onto the show, be sure to join our yahoogroup and go to database and fill out the form.  We do check the data base frequently.  You could also go to our bear talk woof facebook page or google +.

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Photographer Bears

Hey fellow bears

Geoffrey Cook has just attempted to create a group in FB where we can all gather, share, discuss and brag. He doesn't want it flooded with pictures ALL the time with the hopes of good discussion threads, so lets just respect that.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/bearphotographersunite/

Let's all swing on over to see what Geoffrey Cook has to offer for this facebook page. We are in and will sign up for his facebook page to check it out.  

Facebook Idiots

If you think that there are idiots on bear sites only, well then you are wrong. There are on Facebook as well. There are soo many idiots on there. Now, I am not the person who would add people to my facebook page. I added one guy who was in the same state as me so I figure it would be nice to get to know him. I didn't have any sex in my mind though. I don't have many friends here only one or two. Get this. This guy (Andy Hahn) adds me to his friends list, then moments later he takes me off.

WTF????????

I told him what's the point of adding someone when you are going to delete that person. I could never understand that. 

He then tells me that it wasn't that.

Well I would sure love to hear "what it is" then, because I don't have any other resolution why he even did that.

Why accept to start with. Hello? If he denied me, I would had understood it because people get denied all the time from being a friend. I then told him I suppose I would never understand why dumbass people accept then defriend. Which is why I am barely on Facebook anymore. 

But you know something I do have an answer to this issue. They only add you for one thing so they could look at your pictures and if they don't like, then they delete you moments later. Do you think I would be deleted if I was really big, fit and muscly? Oh hell no. No fucken way I would be deleted. Well I will have his face in my head because one day I will get where I want to get and that is more husky and fit. And you know something else, if he ends up requesting to friend me, I will deny his request. 

He then sent me a message "I accepted because I normally just do. After I had realized you were someone my ex cheated on me with while he and I were still together I just decided I didn't want that salt in a wound. just please let it be and please don't insult me."

Oh did I mention that I thanked him for the chat and Happy New Year.