Affection in Public

Do you have a fear of kissing your partner in public? Is something holding you back from holding hands, or kissing your partner or boyfriend out in public something that you always wanted to do without fear?

It still amazes me that some of the guys in the gay community are still shy and feel awkward being affection with their boyfriend or partner in public. Why? Because they still have that fear of being judged by other people who are not like them.

I personally don't give a fuck what other people think when I kiss someone other guy and I don't mind kissing my partner in public. However, my partner has a problem with that. I am not sure why he feels this awkwardness out in public.  Maybe he doesn't want to have cause any problems with other people.  He is a quiet and keep things to himself.  We just recently moved to Maine and I know it is not the problem.  He always felt that since I moved to Washington to be with my partner.

I used to date this big bear before I met my partner and at that time I lived in Arizona. We would hang out and kiss in public. At first I felt funny but after thinking about it and hiding everything for so many years, it really got to me.  I thought to myself, why should I feel awkward, insecure, and afraid of kissing someone that I care about in public when there are many heterosexuals out there that does the same thing. What annoys me is that heterosexuals would stare at two homosexuals in a different way with disgust.  I also thought that these people definitely have a problem with that.  It is not you that is the problem, is the person that is staring at you that has that problem.  To me, I wasn't goign to change my ways so it would suite these heterosexuals.  Oh hell no.

THIS IS OUT TIME. This is the time for us to stop feeling scared, and insecure going outside becoming affectionate and kissing that someone that we care about. Its not fare on yourself to feel this way. Do you see us gay men looking at heterosexuals with disgust and say something? No of course not. And they don't feel insecured about that either. Haven't you noticed that? So why feel insecure about yourself kissing, holding hands outside in public?

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We have been working on some good topics for possible upcoming shows and its looking good. Guys, just make sure that if you have any topics you would like to contribute on any subjects you like to hear about, we would take that in consideration for those shows.

Improvements for BearCentral But Still Not Enough

We were thinking about BearCentral and why are they struggling with keeping the site up? It seems that
 Walt, Scott and Chris has been pretty busy over the weekend, trying their best to keep requesting for donations so that the site could continue to run.   After reading through the blogs which other bears had wrote, they seem to have their support on BearCentral and apparently had donated.

We at Bear Talk Woof has been doing some calculations. Now according to BearCentral, there are approximately 28,611 members on the site. If you divide that by 4 you would get 7,152, that's a quarter amount of members on the site. We are not sure how much it takes for a website to run but assuming that it takes about $800.00. But that is just our guess and if that is how much it cost, then it takes 800 members to keep the site up, each member contributing a dollar toward that fund. That is a small amount of members to 28,611 who had donated which is very sad.

This is a tough time in our society. Its understanding that not many bears are not able to donate money, even a dollar. These days in this age people are trying to save a buck. Many people are out of jobs and those who are working are living paycheck by paycheck and they just cannot afford. Maybe some bears cannot afford to be bothered paying up for that extra access and the only thing that is important in the site is in contact with other bears. I am sure that there are bears who are on here are on other sites as well supporting those sites too which is why they can't afford support another site. These are possibilities.

So what do you guys think? Will it be enough for them to keep it up by the end of the week? We'll see. They are really hoping that BearCentral improves.

Bear Central in Jeapardy

Before the weekend started BearCentral posted that the past several weeks they had asked to help support the costs to keep bearcentral running. Some bears were pitching in, unfortunately about 69 members on the site had donated. They were going to closed down BearCentral as of today.

They left a message on the site yesterday to let people know that they have been overwhelmed about the respond during the weekend that apparently they have been hearing people saying that they want BearCentral to keep it alive through blog comments and donations.

All of sudden they seem to be on the brighter side, however would it be enough as donations continue so it is a possibility that things could turn out for the better.

BearCentral is still trying to keep the donations coming in to keep the site from shutting down. They had made a suggestion if you wouldl ike to make "a bigger (or smaller)" donation could do so. It also seem that they also thought about someone who is interested in investing or buying BearCentral and to let them know. It just seems that Chris, Walt and Scott are really struggling with the website looking for donations.

Bear Talk Woof's concern is that if these fellow bears are struggling with BearCentral with donations, and all that would lead them to buying BearCentral, would it make any difference if someone else buys the website? Wouldn't the site still be struggling even if it was bought by someone else?  Would that make a difference?  What do you think?

Bear Talk Woof shows

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We are presently looking to put together some shows on BlogTalkRadio for Bear Talk Woof.  If anyone who would like to participate on our shows, feel free to let us know and we could be able to discuss the possibilities for our new show that is available.  There are lots of topics that we could be able to discuss about.  If you are interested, please let us know at our yahoo group or our facebook page. 

Partner Trouble

Our friend Chris friend came over at our house for a day to hang out with us.  I kind of knew something was on his mind because he wasn't himself.  He was stalling and pacing around.  So I asked him what is on his mind.  We couldn't gather what he was saying but I heard the word 'sexually' while he was talking.  We were not really sure what he was talking about, however, I got the hint that it obviously had something to do with sex.  Chris notice something about in his relationship and he doesn't know what to do.  I believe that it was upsetting him too.

Chris was pretty nervous about explaining his problem especially in front of my partner but he knew me to be a caring person so I tried to calm him down and told him that it was okay.  He eventually went outside for a cigarette.  I told my partner that I will talk to him outside.  So I followed Chris out to the patio.  I was thinking that perhaps he felt a little uncomfortable being around my partner explaining his problem, which is okay.  People can be that way.

I asked Chris what was up.  From what I had gathered, Chris had explained to me that whenever he and his partner has sex his partner doesn't get hard, and Chris wants him to top him.  Chris had noticed that while his partner is asleep his partner's cock gets rock hard eventually and Chris thinks back the times he tries to get his partner this hard during sex but it has become a problem to Chris and it bothers him.


If anyone in the group have any in-site that you could give to Chris feel free to open up and help him out.