I read someone's blog....

Why is it that it seems like the guys that are close to you will not even talk to you or anything but it is all ways the guys that live in another country or in another state. That will spend time talking to you and want to get to know you. And something else that gets me you send a guy a message asking him how his day was or to say good morning. And he will not respond to you it takes him a day or two to respond even if he does . What happened to if someone sent you a message you would read it and then be nice and send one back. And come one guys it is 2011 everyone can go to WalMart or go on-line and BUY A WEB CAM. Or knows someone that HAS ONE so you can put on PIC. on your profile. That is strange to me I understand being in the closet I do but come on guys. If you are GAY BE PROUD / if you are BI BE PROUD it should NOT matter WHO knows. It is you that is gona look in the mirror BE PROUD !!!! NO MATTER WHAT ANYONE SAYS !!!!

My answer to that was:
I had read quite a few of your blogs on here and it appears to me that you seem to be too hard on yourself. That is very unhealthy. First off, I think it might be your self conscious that you think that guys who are close to you not want to talk to you. Its like that everywhere. I'm not sure why guys always say something like "why are all the good looking guys so far away" or why they can't find anyone in their neighborhood. The internet is a world wide web and you will see you will come across with people throughout the world which is distracting to where you are located. Have you even typed in your neighborhood and started to chat like that? You could really look for someone if you really want to. but I stopped looking for love when it took a long time for me to realize that I wasn't having any connection, so I stopped searching. I decided to allow the love come to me naturally.

As for the messaging issue, sometimes people are really busy with themselves. They are not on sites as much as other people are constantly. You shouldn't take that in offense. Don't be so demanding. You'll end up getting hurt more.

As for the picture issue, its up to yourself whether you want to connect with that person or not. And as for the webcam deal, not everybody is into webcamming so you have to take that in consideration.