I read someone's blog....

Why is it that it seems like the guys that are close to you will not even talk to you or anything but it is all ways the guys that live in another country or in another state. That will spend time talking to you and want to get to know you. And something else that gets me you send a guy a message asking him how his day was or to say good morning. And he will not respond to you it takes him a day or two to respond even if he does . What happened to if someone sent you a message you would read it and then be nice and send one back. And come one guys it is 2011 everyone can go to WalMart or go on-line and BUY A WEB CAM. Or knows someone that HAS ONE so you can put on PIC. on your profile. That is strange to me I understand being in the closet I do but come on guys. If you are GAY BE PROUD / if you are BI BE PROUD it should NOT matter WHO knows. It is you that is gona look in the mirror BE PROUD !!!! NO MATTER WHAT ANYONE SAYS !!!!

My answer to that was:
I had read quite a few of your blogs on here and it appears to me that you seem to be too hard on yourself. That is very unhealthy. First off, I think it might be your self conscious that you think that guys who are close to you not want to talk to you. Its like that everywhere. I'm not sure why guys always say something like "why are all the good looking guys so far away" or why they can't find anyone in their neighborhood. The internet is a world wide web and you will see you will come across with people throughout the world which is distracting to where you are located. Have you even typed in your neighborhood and started to chat like that? You could really look for someone if you really want to. but I stopped looking for love when it took a long time for me to realize that I wasn't having any connection, so I stopped searching. I decided to allow the love come to me naturally.

As for the messaging issue, sometimes people are really busy with themselves. They are not on sites as much as other people are constantly. You shouldn't take that in offense. Don't be so demanding. You'll end up getting hurt more.

As for the picture issue, its up to yourself whether you want to connect with that person or not. And as for the webcam deal, not everybody is into webcamming so you have to take that in consideration.

Updates

Hey all,
some of you have been keeping up with our yahoo group. Those who haven't, be sure to add yourself to the yahoo group so you will have updates on whats been going on with us.

Will let you in on whats been going on. I have been extremely busy with my classes. Will be finished January 2013 for my associates, however, I am thinking of continuing my education for my bachelors.

We will be relocating into town of Portland (not Oregon), Maine. We decided that the suburban area isn't for us. Not now anyways. We had a choice either buying a vehicle or move. So we had chosen to move so we could be able to walk around the town even in the evenings and not have to worry about bus transportation all the time. However, bus transportation doesn't bother us, it will lower our bus trips if we lived in the town. So we hope to be able to move sometime next month or October to a much bigger place.

Be sure to follow yourself to Stan's blog. http://stanedwards.blogspot.com/ He would really appreciate that.

We will be putting on the shows soon. Just be patient. I know its a long time we have been talking about it but a lot has been going on.  We just got in touch with one of our bear friends and agreed to come onto the show.  We just have to both be available at the same time.  Also if you all would like to come on to the show and discusss a certain topic, just let us know.

Well that'll be it for now.