You know its amazing how closed minded some people be. There was one muscle bear that was giving his opinions about a muscle bear. Consider that he is a muscle bear himself, I also notice that all the muscle bears responded to his thread.
He says that A Muscle Bear is often a good listener, a good friend and an incredible lover.
okay lets stop right there. That may be true but most of you will notice that alot of the muscle bears could also give you the cold shoulder if you are not a muscle bear yourself and you have to be in that clique and fit in that muscle bear group. If you are not in the muscle bear group, nearly all of them will not talk to you at all because your not a muscle bear yourself. Since he mentioned an incredible lover. is he saying that anybody else outside of the the muscle bear group are not incredible lovers? Please.
They are hyper-masculine without it being part of their ego. They believe in people, encourage others, and often root for the underdog…pushing them to reach their fullest potential. They are often shy, even though their presence is immediately felt. They despise drama, encourage compromise and try to be fair and impartial. They usually mull over all angles and go down all roads of a problem before rushing to judgment. They NEVER challenge, but rise quickly if challenged. They are good natured and easy going, but when stirred to temper, have the energy of an atomic blast!
Lets stop right there. They are always into their ego and always looking at themselves in the mirror. Encourages others? I know gay men who ask questions to those muscle bears and looking for that encouragement but never gotten a reply from them. Shy? I don't think so.
A Muscle Bear, once they trust you, will enfold you into his pack and give you the shirt off his back, the pants of his legs, and anything else you need…because their needs are typically secondary. They are loyal TO A FAULT and because of their trusting nature, their heart is larger than normal, feels deeply about so many things and is often very pensive; contemplating the many hues of a leaf on an autumn day, or the sun slanting in through the blinds of a window.
Okay lets stop right there. Once they trust you? Its like that with everybody? it takes a lot of time to trust someone before you give anybody anything. And I tell you this, not all the muscle bears are trusting natured.
The gym is his temple, as he believes that he was created to strive for physical perfection. He is spiritual without being disrespectful and embraces the positive influences of the universe. THIS type of Muscle Bear mates for life and has a cub that is purely and solely his. A Muscle Bear has often been deeply hurt because they have an inherent flaw of blindly trusting people…but they just keep on believing, and bleeding and wearing their heart on their sleeve. He is often misunderstood; meaning that while the exterior comes across as powerful and monolithic, every once in a while he wishes that he could confide in someone that the weight and responsibility of the world on his shoulders is sometimes just too much, and he wishes, HOW HE WISHES that HE could talk to someone else for once about HIS problems. When he crashes, he crashes…and although it’s only for a day or two…those few days can be the most soul searching times…and he usually retreats to his cave for a while to be alone. He believes that anything is possible with hard work and dedication and is often not affected by events that can cause others to fall apart. If he had a motto it would be: “Problems have solutions, money is not happiness and life is short”.
OKay lets stop right there. The gym is anybody's temple who decides to enter the doors of the gym to make a change of themselves. Since when did the muscle bear decies that the gym is their temple? And disrespectful? Muscle bears do disrespect you by only sticking with their kind and when you ask them a fitness question they don't even bother answer you, but if it was another muscle bear asking the question, a muscle bear without hesitant will answer that question. As for the confiding into someone and even with their problems, the muscle bears always have each other because they always tend to hang out with one another and talk to each other so why wouldn't they? If your not a muscle bear they don't wan to know you or they don't take much interested in you if your not in that click. No matter how much you try to be friends with them and talk to them and seek advice and support one another, they don't want to do that unless your a muscle bear yourself, then they are all in your business wondering and wanting to know what program you are on and what suppliments works for you and what not.
Now I am not saying all these muscle bears are like this because I had met a minor few which is very low percentage who would speak and be a human being rather than his ego. So most of them are too much full of themselves and into their own world.
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