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USA Passed Same Sex Marriage

Yes, something that we all have been waiting to see and it has finally come.  Today Congress has passed same sex marriage in all 50 states.  This should had been done many years ago.

Time to celebrate and party.

What do you feel like what is going to happen after this?  To tell you the truth, I feel it in my bones that this is not the end.  I feel something is coming.  Arguments and more violence to add to the pot.

There are many people out there that doesn't like us because of our homosexuality.  Just because the United States passed all 50 states of marriage, doesn't make other things disappear such as homophobics, and people who do not think gay people should marry, and gay bashings and killings.  We have to still stand on our grounds and what we believe.  And that is really sad how  we have to continue on fighting for ourselves and our equality.  Can't we all just get along?

I'm HIV +, touch me

I came across with this video of a fella who is HIV +.  He was doing an experiment and it was interesting and very touching when he discovered the results of his experiment.   This video is in another language but the video says it all.

I hate my body

Many people suffer from being overweight and it has become a problem especially in the United States.  Calling someone "fat", or "ugly" definitely makes things worse and you don't feel good about yourself and that can lead to depression.

In the bear community you will notice the many shapes and sizes and its sad to see those who are overweight or obese, even being skinny and they wonder why they don't meet at least some nice friends without them judging what the person looks like.

What I had noticed of those who are overweight or too skinny, especially from alot of those Muscle Bears is that if you are not a muscle bear, your not part of that circle so you don't become friends with that you once thought who was going to be interesting and getting to know.  Muscle bears has such a big ego that don't like to be judged so they stay away with the kind of guys who are not like them physically.  They like to feel more powerful than you are.

Wouldn't it be easier if stereotypes would just see beyond a picture?  Quite frankly, I think its pathetic and sad because those people don't know what the person really is on the inside.

If you feel that you hate the way your body looks, then you should change it, depending on how you want to change it. God didn't curse you to be fat or skinny and ugly. You can change that. Eat food with less carbohydrates and fats in them. Don't sit at the computer and complain about life and think about how God cursed you when you can actually DO something about it. Just exersise and eat foods that are less fatty and have less carbs.

Do you want to sculpt your body, do you want to slim down, do you want to gain muscle mass?  Either way lots of exercise and working out will help you transform your body. And when you do that, you will notice alot of changes in your body and you would feel so much comfortable and good about yourself. Guys will be surprised at your transformation.  Including your family and friends.
Trust me, if someone doesn't like the way you look, rather than knowing the you inside, then they are not worth knowing.  Fuck them.  You are better than that You shouldn't feel bad because someone doesn't like the way you look.  Everybody is different and has different tastes in men.

But what if you feel that you shouldn't change your body for them to like you, then I think you should start doing some changes about yourself.  Stop looking down on yourself and feeling depressed and lonely.  Having these kinds of feelings could make you get sick.  Learn to accept your body then, and find those right people to connect with who could connect, accepts and appreciates for who you are and your personality rather than just a picture of your looks.

Life is too short to be moping and complaining on the computer.