Are you in an open or monogamous relationship?

This is a question that keeps being brought up in the gay community.  Some are monogamous and some are open.  The fact is that there are more open relationships than the monogamous relationships. However, there are those who are somewhat one-sided monogamous.  One person in the relationship is monogamous and the other is open.  This wouldn't be called cheating, as long as they both agreed to this.

What I had noticed is that on the bear sites is that there is a single guy who is talking to a guy who happens to be partnered.  He doesn't realize it until after the guy said "we", or "my partner" rather than "I".  Of course the single guy didn't know about the guy is partnered.  Why?  Because he didn't read the description in the profile that the guy is partnered.  The second that the single guy finds this information he becomes confused and annoyed wondering why the guy was on the site if he was partnered.

Many singles go through this and ask that question to partnered couples on why they are on the site if they are partnered.  Well its really simple. Its a social site not a dating site.

Lots of singles just cannot accept friendship and chats as they are so worried about being alone and lonely.  In this case, they go out trying to find other singles and most of the time its the appearance and how cute they are rather than the person inside of it. 

That's why I say to read all your profiles before chatting with the person rather being interested in what the guy looks like and how big his dick is in his pants.  If singles cannot accept the person and their profile what he wrote then they better move on to the next profile.  Don't waste the guy's time.