Followers

Friday, September 4, 2015

One side stories




When you are friends with someone, its always easy to take that person's side over the person you are not friends with at all.  By this and hearing that person's side is only partial or biased to hear on one person's view on things without investigating the whole scenerio.  When that friend takes that person's side its favors to them and makes the person feel more powerful.  But it truely doesn't.  The friend is only hearing his side of the story without knowing the FULL STORY.

For example

On Facebook a guy name Jeff was talking to someone and they were fighting with their words back and forth.  People are reading and giving their opinion about what they think.  Before you know it that person is taking off the friend's list by Jeff because he couldn't handle the fighting.  Jeff is angry and pissed off.  Jeff then posts something negative on his profile and other people responds to his thread and how much of an asshole that person was, or they may yeah, he sounds crazy, or something like that.

People can easily jump into conclusions without knowing the full story about things.  So when Jeff posts something on his profile, gives him that power to his friends and getting replies that would build up his credibility that he is right.  By posting something negative about the person tells me that this person has hate in him which is why Jeff posted negative things on his thread.

So with that said, always take in both sides into consideration because it would give you a better idea what the full story is about and then make your opinion about.  Don't judge a book by its cover as its not always going to be that true book.

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