Weekend photos

Hey there everyone
I hope you are doing well and having a great holiday weekend.  Well I have made a decision on photos onto the group in Facebook.  To make things fair I had decided to accept photos on weekends plus holidays, and during the week we could have chatting after-all that's what the group was created for Bears Talking and not just submitting photos as it is not a photos gallery.  If you want to submit photos during the week, I had created a tumblr page and feel free to send your photos to beartalkwoof@gmail.com

So if you happen to post a pic on the group and waiting for approval, don't take offense because its been deleted.   I don't want the group to be just pictures.  I rather have some participating and interaction.

One side stories

When you are friends with someone, its always easy to take that person's side over the person you are not friends with at all.  By this and hearing that person's side is only partial or biased to hear on one person's view on things without investigating the whole scenerio.  When that friend takes that person's side its favors to them and makes the person feel more powerful.  But it truely doesn't.  The friend is only hearing his side of the story without knowing the FULL STORY.

For example

On Facebook a guy name Jeff was talking to someone and they were fighting with their words back and forth.  People are reading and giving their opinion about what they think.  Before you know it that person is taking off the friend's list by Jeff because he couldn't handle the fighting.  Jeff is angry and pissed off.  Jeff then posts something negative on his profile and other people responds to his thread and how much of an asshole that person was, or they may yeah, he sounds crazy, or something like that.

People can easily jump into conclusions without knowing the full story about things.  So when Jeff posts something on his profile, gives him that power to his friends and getting replies that would build up his credibility that he is right.  By posting something negative about the person tells me that this person has hate in him which is why Jeff posted negative things on his thread.

So with that said, always take in both sides into consideration because it would give you a better idea what the full story is about and then make your opinion about.  Don't judge a book by its cover as its not always going to be that true book.

Robert looking for friends possible relationship

Robert Whitaker is Single and he's looking for other singles out there for friends and turn into a possible relationship.  He's willing to relocate for that right person.  

Could you be that person?  Only way to find out.  Contact him and make your acquaintance to him. He's very friendly and down to earth.

do you have any questions?  Just ask him on Bear Talk Woof Facebook page to get in touch with him.

Brad Rigney case

The murder trial of Gerald Allen Benjamins, who is accused of killing 36-year-old Brad Rigney will not be held until September 14 and has been set as a new trial date after Benjamins’ attorney asked for a continuance in the trial, which was supposed to begin last month.

It will take place almost a year after Benjamins’ arrest. He was arrested Monday, Sept. 29, 2014, in Jeffersonville, Ind., after he was picked up at a soup kitchen in the southern Indiana town outside of Louisville.

According to RPD detective Kenneth Edmonds, Rigney and Benjamins met over the Internet and were online acquaintances.


In the early part of the investigation into the murder, Benjamins was identified as a possible suspect and interviewed by Edmonds on Jan. 17, 2014 and some things that Benjamin said just didn't add up.

Rigney, who was deaf, lived alone at the Rhea Blvd. residence. His body was first discovered by his brother and sister-in-law, who then called 911.

An autopsy was performed on Sunday, Dec. 29, 2013, and the preliminary indication was that Rigney had died from blunt force trauma to the head.

Anti social

It really amazes me how so many bears on the social websites are very anti social and all they want is either sex with you or look at your pictures.  I thought the bea sites are suppose to be social network websites where guys could meet and get to know each other and possible date.

I experienced alot of that on androids alot such as through Scruff, Growlr, and Grindr.  However, I do give Growlr some credit because I personally had met some nice guys on that that site.

What I like about the sites is that you could be able to see who is actually within your area.  Like Grinder, say you take a visit to New York.  When you open the app you could see who is in the New York area from where you are at in New York.  I thought this was interesting.  Problem is that nobody wants to meet up.  Not really sure why that is.  I had gotten a couple of responses but its always a couple of words even when you write a good descent paragraph.  Are you telling me that I wrote a good 6 line paragraph to get a response from you "Oh cool"?  I mean, who does that?  Its very sad that it has to come to be anti social as I know some guys very much want to meet up, hang out, have a few drinks and a good laugh and not have to worry about that they are there waiting to fuck you and then disappear.  

Has this boils down to then?

RIP Greg Garcia

Hello my fellow bears!

Just found out we lost another brother in our bear community.  Greg Garcia.  Yep.  He had passed away.  I had heard from friends that there was some talk about Greg having some cancer.  Not only that he passed away but this was also his birthday.


MAY YOU REST IN PEACE BROTHER