Bear Talk Woof Google +

Okay guys, I just created a Bear Talk Woof on Google+.  I am pretty sure that some don't be active on Facebook where we have a page for Bear Talk Woof, so I am giving the opportunity for those who are not connected with Facebook to connect with Bear Talk Woof on Google +.

Google + has become a little better these days.  They had created a community function and that's where Bear Talk Woof went to.  I had created categories like Discussions, Shows, and events.

So swing on over to BTW on Google +
https://plus.google.com/u/0/communities/110782974803635304078

Bruizr Closing down

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Hot Sexy Men: Introduction

Hot Sexy Men: Introduction: I decided to create this Blog to show the beauty of hot men of different shapes and sizes, both casual and explicit images.  I wasn't sure w...

NOT Free

I am not sure what he is talking about because Bruizr is not free.  If you take a look at the bruizr site it is free but for only 30 days then you have to pay that's where he catches you.  It just seems that Bruizr is a little desperate and having other bears giving out false information.  After Scott's dramatic episodes, he showed his true colors to the bear community, showing immaturity, name calling, expressing hatred toward other bears in the group as well as outside of the web site.  That's not being a responsible web host.  

Issue in bear community between Muscle bears and overweight bears

I was on Facebook for a little while and after making conversation with a few guys, I started thinking about the bears. When I was growing up I was the only one in the family who was becoming very hairy. I was always a heavy kid and was picked on as well.

I didn't know about the bear community that there other gay hairy men until I was like 26 years old even though I had fancied some of the big bear type guys. I had also known bears as being big husky and hairy with goatees and beards. It wasn't until like 2005 or something like that I started seeing muscle bears. You know, it just seems that the muscle bears are destorying the symbol of the bear image. I personally never saw the muscled type guys as part of the community and before you knew it, they were taking over the meaning of the bear name. The muscle bears are pretty much into themselves and they don't want to know you if you are overweight and not fit like they are. They feed on compliments and all that. They even turn the other way and let bigger bears down and not want to have associate with other bears. What's that all about? I think that the muscle bears are giving the meaning of bear community a bad name. If they are calling themselves muscle bears, shouldn't the bear community become as one rather than classing each other? C'mon now, give me a break.

Mickey Squires

Was just thinking about Mickey Squires and how so sexy he looks.  Some of these photos I never saw before.  I think he looks better now that he's older.

Joe Kelso in bicycle accident

Bless Joe Kelso. According to a John (which I think is his partner) used Joe's personal Facebook account letting friends know that Joe was involved in a solo bicycle incident Saturday morning. He sustained a concussion, broken cheek, lacerations to the chin and knees with mild road rash on his face moderate the length of his right arm.

Joe's biking buddy Jeff Akeley was with him and accompanied Joe to the hospital. Joe will stay at the hospital overnight to monitor the effects of the concussion.

Joe does not remember what happened, however, he had recognized John when he was awake. Joe realized that he is in a hospital and remembers what month and year it is. He sleeps most of the time but is woken up every hour to assess his progress.

That could be a worse part being in the hospital. I remember the time that I was laid up in bed in the hospital, the nurses came in every 15 to 30 minutes and kept me up all night.

JOhn thinks that he could probably be able to take Joe home this morning. Joe's family in Florida has been informed on what happened to him this weekend.

From the Doctor's orders for JOe's recovery from this concussion to keep the brain calm, Joe cannot watch TV, read, talk on the phone, text or use a computer. He is to rest in a dimly lit, quite room.

Dumbass on bearforest

This guy had contacted me and I had thanked him for viewing my profile and contacting me.  I never talked to this guy before and he is getting the impression that he was in our home.  As some of you know, that my partner and I don't have any friends here in Maine considering that these Maine people are very hard to become friends with as they project themselves as being standoffish.  Since we don't have friends here, I don't understand how this Johnny character could simply say that he was here in our apartment and insinuating that I was being rude, and I made a few things clear to him so he could understand this dialog.  

Okay lets say that he was here, there is nothing stopping him from taking a few steps to sit on the sofa.  I don't know about you guys, but I would sit down depending how long I feel that I was going to stay at someone's house.   

I don't appreciate him coming up to me and start stirring up shit that I have no clue what he is talking about.  Meanwhile, he tells my partner what he wants him to do to him.  Uh, hello?  Doesn't this guy read profiles? Both of my partner and I have "partnered" in our profiles.  How do I know this information what this Johnny character wants my partner to do to him?  Because me and my partner's computers are side to side from one another  in front of the television so we could be able to see each other's computer easily as well as watching the television.

Bearapalooza 10th Anniversary coming soon!

Bearapalooza is having their 10th anniverssary in November, and there will be having a big birthday celebration in NYC. There is in need for artists there, rent the room and all that stuff, so they made an Indiegogo campaign with some COOL rewards! If you cant make a contribution, you can share the with your friends!

http://www.indiegogo.com/​Bearapalooza10th

The Warning Privacy Notice

WARNING PRIVACY NOTICE: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, advertising, solicitations or projects - You DO NOT have my permission to contact me or use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

This notice I have been seeing on bear sites a lot lately.  I do find it is interesting how the guys on bear websites such as bearforest, bear411, bearwww, and so on, would post this on particular Warning Privacy Notice as part of their profile. C'mon guys. Do you guys think that these guys who have this message in their profile doesn't take other bears photos for their own personal use and that means saving those photos onto their computer as well?  Give me a break.  Why place something in their profile when they know damn right they do it themselves?

BearDance T at the MC

If you are a resident in Dallas Texas or planning on visiting Dallas around September 16, come celebrate the Gay Pride in Dallas with bears and friends at TMC! prime location for parade watching, multiple DJ's, T-dance featuring TONY MORAN

live performance by Colton Ford!

click onto the link for details.
https://www.facebook.com/events/424618924251308/

Aids Bike Ride Harbor Of the Bay

Ian Lekus has entered himself the Harbor to The Bay, Bike ride for aids where he will be biking on September 15, 2012 length of Cape Cod, from Sagamore to Provincetown, on the Harbor to the Bay for AIDS ride.

He is collecting donations and his goal is $7,500, so far reaching over $5,000.00

For more information or you would like to put in tyour donations you could go to the following website and enter the amount and a personal note.

https://www.harbortothebay.org/personal.asp?RIDER=4

Updates

Hey all,
some of you have been keeping up with our yahoo group. Those who haven't, be sure to add yourself to the yahoo group so you will have updates on whats been going on with us.

Will let you in on whats been going on. I have been extremely busy with my classes. Will be finished January 2013 for my associates, however, I am thinking of continuing my education for my bachelors.

We will be relocating into town of Portland (not Oregon), Maine. We decided that the suburban area isn't for us. Not now anyways. We had a choice either buying a vehicle or move. So we had chosen to move so we could be able to walk around the town even in the evenings and not have to worry about bus transportation all the time. However, bus transportation doesn't bother us, it will lower our bus trips if we lived in the town. So we hope to be able to move sometime next month or October to a much bigger place.

Be sure to follow yourself to Stan's blog. http://stanedwards.blogspot.com/ He would really appreciate that.

We will be putting on the shows soon. Just be patient. I know its a long time we have been talking about it but a lot has been going on.  We just got in touch with one of our bear friends and agreed to come onto the show.  We just have to both be available at the same time.  Also if you all would like to come on to the show and discusss a certain topic, just let us know.

Well that'll be it for now.

Beach

I cannot believe that we are in August and I still haven't been to the beach yet this.  I do like the beach and that freedom to go nude at the nudist beach but the people around here in Portland Maine don't have beaches like that here, as they will report you to the police I am sure.  However, down south of Portland a little further down there is a beach called Ogunquit Beach.  Just hadn't gone down there and I haven't a feeling I will not be getting down there since I don't have a vehicle.  Nothing stopping to go to the regular beaches around here.  Would be nice to have some other bear friends to join.

Bears P-town photos 2012

Okay guys, we finally gotten a hold of some photos of bears p-town 2012 from one of the photography face-book pages.  Has anyone went to P-town?  If you would like to share more photos of the events, let us know on our facebook page so we could add them to the blogs.  If you want anything to say as well feel free inform us about it.  We'd be happy to add it to the blogs.

Bear Week Provincetown 2012

In case some of you might had forgotten, Bear week for Provincetown has been going on. July 7 -15th, 2012. We have some quite a few bears who are on Facebook that went to P-town and they have been enjoying their time.

"Loving it, great friends, meeting new bears & having an all around great time", a fellow bear said.

Even though some are having such a wonderful time there, others cannot make it to be with other fellow bears to the all these events.

I would hope that one day that P-town would be able to broadcast live on blogtv, or livestream or something like that on the Internet. I think it would also be some entertainment for those who missed out on it.  We will try to get a hold of some photos of this event.  In the meantime here is a photos of you guys of these sexy bears.

Affection in Public

Do you have a fear of kissing your partner in public? Is something holding you back from holding hands, or kissing your partner or boyfriend out in public something that you always wanted to do without fear?

It still amazes me that some of the guys in the gay community are still shy and feel awkward being affection with their boyfriend or partner in public. Why? Because they still have that fear of being judged by other people who are not like them.

I personally don't give a fuck what other people think when I kiss someone other guy and I don't mind kissing my partner in public. However, my partner has a problem with that. I am not sure why he feels this awkwardness out in public.  Maybe he doesn't want to have cause any problems with other people.  He is a quiet and keep things to himself.  We just recently moved to Maine and I know it is not the problem.  He always felt that since I moved to Washington to be with my partner.

I used to date this big bear before I met my partner and at that time I lived in Arizona. We would hang out and kiss in public. At first I felt funny but after thinking about it and hiding everything for so many years, it really got to me.  I thought to myself, why should I feel awkward, insecure, and afraid of kissing someone that I care about in public when there are many heterosexuals out there that does the same thing. What annoys me is that heterosexuals would stare at two homosexuals in a different way with disgust.  I also thought that these people definitely have a problem with that.  It is not you that is the problem, is the person that is staring at you that has that problem.  To me, I wasn't goign to change my ways so it would suite these heterosexuals.  Oh hell no.

THIS IS OUT TIME. This is the time for us to stop feeling scared, and insecure going outside becoming affectionate and kissing that someone that we care about. Its not fare on yourself to feel this way. Do you see us gay men looking at heterosexuals with disgust and say something? No of course not. And they don't feel insecured about that either. Haven't you noticed that? So why feel insecure about yourself kissing, holding hands outside in public?

Bear Talk Woof Radio Needs Your Support

We would like you guys to start following us on blogtalkradio to prepare for upcoming shows that we will be working on.

www.blogtalkradio.com/beartalkwoof/


We have been working on some good topics for possible upcoming shows and its looking good. Guys, just make sure that if you have any topics you would like to contribute on any subjects you like to hear about, we would take that in consideration for those shows.

Improvements for BearCentral But Still Not Enough

We were thinking about BearCentral and why are they struggling with keeping the site up? It seems that
 Walt, Scott and Chris has been pretty busy over the weekend, trying their best to keep requesting for donations so that the site could continue to run.   After reading through the blogs which other bears had wrote, they seem to have their support on BearCentral and apparently had donated.

We at Bear Talk Woof has been doing some calculations. Now according to BearCentral, there are approximately 28,611 members on the site. If you divide that by 4 you would get 7,152, that's a quarter amount of members on the site. We are not sure how much it takes for a website to run but assuming that it takes about $800.00. But that is just our guess and if that is how much it cost, then it takes 800 members to keep the site up, each member contributing a dollar toward that fund. That is a small amount of members to 28,611 who had donated which is very sad.

This is a tough time in our society. Its understanding that not many bears are not able to donate money, even a dollar. These days in this age people are trying to save a buck. Many people are out of jobs and those who are working are living paycheck by paycheck and they just cannot afford. Maybe some bears cannot afford to be bothered paying up for that extra access and the only thing that is important in the site is in contact with other bears. I am sure that there are bears who are on here are on other sites as well supporting those sites too which is why they can't afford support another site. These are possibilities.

So what do you guys think? Will it be enough for them to keep it up by the end of the week? We'll see. They are really hoping that BearCentral improves.

Bear Central in Jeapardy

Before the weekend started BearCentral posted that the past several weeks they had asked to help support the costs to keep bearcentral running. Some bears were pitching in, unfortunately about 69 members on the site had donated. They were going to closed down BearCentral as of today.

They left a message on the site yesterday to let people know that they have been overwhelmed about the respond during the weekend that apparently they have been hearing people saying that they want BearCentral to keep it alive through blog comments and donations.

All of sudden they seem to be on the brighter side, however would it be enough as donations continue so it is a possibility that things could turn out for the better.

BearCentral is still trying to keep the donations coming in to keep the site from shutting down. They had made a suggestion if you wouldl ike to make "a bigger (or smaller)" donation could do so. It also seem that they also thought about someone who is interested in investing or buying BearCentral and to let them know. It just seems that Chris, Walt and Scott are really struggling with the website looking for donations.

Bear Talk Woof's concern is that if these fellow bears are struggling with BearCentral with donations, and all that would lead them to buying BearCentral, would it make any difference if someone else buys the website? Wouldn't the site still be struggling even if it was bought by someone else?  Would that make a difference?  What do you think?

Bear Talk Woof shows

Hey guys,
We are presently looking to put together some shows on BlogTalkRadio for Bear Talk Woof.  If anyone who would like to participate on our shows, feel free to let us know and we could be able to discuss the possibilities for our new show that is available.  There are lots of topics that we could be able to discuss about.  If you are interested, please let us know at our yahoo group or our facebook page. 

Partner Trouble

Our friend Chris friend came over at our house for a day to hang out with us.  I kind of knew something was on his mind because he wasn't himself.  He was stalling and pacing around.  So I asked him what is on his mind.  We couldn't gather what he was saying but I heard the word 'sexually' while he was talking.  We were not really sure what he was talking about, however, I got the hint that it obviously had something to do with sex.  Chris notice something about in his relationship and he doesn't know what to do.  I believe that it was upsetting him too.

Chris was pretty nervous about explaining his problem especially in front of my partner but he knew me to be a caring person so I tried to calm him down and told him that it was okay.  He eventually went outside for a cigarette.  I told my partner that I will talk to him outside.  So I followed Chris out to the patio.  I was thinking that perhaps he felt a little uncomfortable being around my partner explaining his problem, which is okay.  People can be that way.

I asked Chris what was up.  From what I had gathered, Chris had explained to me that whenever he and his partner has sex his partner doesn't get hard, and Chris wants him to top him.  Chris had noticed that while his partner is asleep his partner's cock gets rock hard eventually and Chris thinks back the times he tries to get his partner this hard during sex but it has become a problem to Chris and it bothers him.


If anyone in the group have any in-site that you could give to Chris feel free to open up and help him out.

Pasture says death to the homosexuals and lesbians

Pasture says death to the homosexuals and lesbians

Bear Obesity

Are you an overly obese bear who had thought about slimming down? Is your obesity the cause of your back pain? Do you feel disgusted when you look at yourself in the mirror?

There are many bears who are obese have different reasons to loosing some of the bearish look and slimming down a bit.  Some of the reasons may be cholesterol, or something that the doctor told them to do otherwise they will be consequences, no friends, or may feel embarrassed.

Its really sad to hear from bears who are obese and experience problems on talking to other bears who are much fitter than obese bear.  I was talking to one of the bears who was obese up to the 400 range and he was telling me that he wants to start working out but the only problem is that he adds stuff to his foods.  He doesn't know how to change his life because he always sets himself up to failure.  I like to talk to him all the time about what he could do, trying to help him out.  He may listen right now but perhaps someday those words I keep talking to him about will sink in to him.

Certain obese bears has taken themselves to get gastric bypass.  Depending how the person looks I would say that would be your last resort to go by gastric bypass.  I mean, I have seen guys who are just overweight and not obese at all like 600+ and go for gastric bypass.  I think that is the easy and lazy way out.  Like I said, only suggest the gastric bypass as a last resort.  There are many much over weight guys like in their 600+ that simply cannot help themselves so I would suggest go that route.  Guys who are in their 300+ and go for gastric, I personally feel that would be ridiculous.  There are many guys out there that weight who did workout, exercise, diet and have achieved their goals.


You Can Make A Change In Your Life

Obesity could take over your life and can cause your life too.  But another fact is that you could control it if you really wanted to.  It takes lots of strength and will power to keep at a strict diet without cravings for sweets, chocolates and pastries and take outs.   If you are not happy with the way you look in the mirror, its up to you to be able to take action with your life.  You could make that change if you really want to.  


Few Things You Could Do To Lower Your weight

Easy way to burn hundreds of calories is to take the stairs rather the elevator.

Drink lots of water, keeps you hydrated.

Lots of walking.

Stay away from processed and fatty foods. They are loaded with saturated and trans fat.

Lots of whole grains in your daily diet with fresh and fruits and vegetables.

No take outs allowed.

Cut back on red meats and include fish at least twice a week in your diet.


Also talk to people who are into fitness.


With these tips, will help you and it is a start to lower your weight from obesity. You have to do it. Do it for yourself. Hey, nobody said this will be easy. If this was to be easy, everybody would be doing it. So hard work will show the results.

Matt Zarley Trust me

I tell ya, I have to be honest with you, that Matt Zarley is hot hot sonovabitch.  Get your ass over here so I could seduce you big boy.

Mystery Solved of the USMC Homecoming Kiss

MYSTERY SOLVED. On February 26, 2012's viral photo that was sensational and seemed too-good-to-be-real turns out to be authentic. Thanks to some apparent detective work by Joe Jervis, we now know the returning Marine was Brandon Morgan, greeting his partner, Dalan Wells.

Dalan Wells wrote: "To everyone who has responded in a positive way, my partner and I want to say thank you. Dalan, the giant in the photo, can't believe how many shares and likes we have gotten on this. We didn't do this to get famous, or something like that. We did this cause after 3 deployments and four years knowing each other, we finally told each other how we felt. As for the haters, let em hate...to quote Kat Williams, everyone needs haters, so let them hate. We are the happiest we have ever been and as for the whole PDA and kissing slash hugging in uniform...it was a homecoming. If the Sergeants Major, Captains, Majors, and Colonels around us didn't care...then why do you care what these random people have to say? In summation, thank you for your love and support. I received a lot of friend requests off this. I don't just accept requests so if your request was because of this post, message me and let me know. Goodnight all, and Semper Fi."

Thank you for your service to our country, Sir, and to both of you for having the courage to live and love out loud.

Immature bear

Wow I just happened to check my other facebook account and a Shon Robinson was jumping down my throat and threatened me for making sure that I will not be on facebook again. What's that all about. I am never on that account. He definitely has issues because I never talk to the guy. With that said I had to block his stanking ass. I don't bullshit when it comes to threats.  I have no tolerance for this guy.  I mean we don't even talk to each other not sure what his problem is.

United States Marine Corp Homecoming from Iraq

I had found this photo on the Equality Alabama Facebook page. Very second, every minute, every hour, and every day people are commenting and liking the picture and it is continuing to increase. I wouldn't be surprised that there will be many more comments and likes on this picture.There has been some really nice comments, and there are not so nice comments, of course, I wouldn't be surprised if thats heterosexual comments. Hmm, typical. But the fact is gay individuals are people as well and deserve equality just like everybody else. Afterall, they too are serving our country. Let's all face it, that us gay people will stay and stick up for what we believe in.

73% Wants Gay Marriage In Ireland

There is a new poll out that revealed that almost three-quarters of the Irish public believes that same-sex marriage should be made legal.

Equal marriage advocates have welcomed this new poll which puts public support for allowing gay couples to marry at 73%. The poll, by Red C, showed nearly three quarters of those asked said they would agree with the statement:

“Same sex marriage should be allowed in the Constitution”. The results were presented to Ireland’s Oireachtas yesterday in a report prepared for the Department of Public Expenditure and Reform on the last Constitutional referendum. Kieran Rose, Chair of Ireland’s Gay and Lesbian Equality Network said: “The poll confirms the openness of Irish people and their support for further critically important progress to achieving equality for lesbian and gay people."

Reminder for our show

Hey there guys,
Bear Talk Woof needs to start working on our shows.  I just have been pretty busy with my classes and many other things that has been keeping me busy and it has been hectic too.  But in the meantime, be sure to add yourselves to the Bear Talk Woof on blogtalkradio.  If you are interested in coming onto the show, be sure to join our yahoogroup and go to database and fill out the form.  We do check the data base frequently.  You could also go to our bear talk woof facebook page or google +.

Don't forget to follow Bear Talk woof on blogtalkradio by clicking onto the follow button under the main photo.

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Photographer Bears

Hey fellow bears

Geoffrey Cook has just attempted to create a group in FB where we can all gather, share, discuss and brag. He doesn't want it flooded with pictures ALL the time with the hopes of good discussion threads, so lets just respect that.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/bearphotographersunite/

Let's all swing on over to see what Geoffrey Cook has to offer for this facebook page. We are in and will sign up for his facebook page to check it out.  

Occupy Airwaves the 757... Halfbreed

 Guys, here is Chris Ovide's Mix Occupy Airwaves the 757... Halfbreed
Thanks Chris Ovide for sharing this with us.  You rock.

Bears in Iceland with Jonathan Robinson

It is great to hear that Jonathan Robinson had arrived safely in Iceland. He already completed filming two videos there which is now viewable on youtube in the jonathanrobinson channel. Here are the two videos of Bears On Ice, Iceland.   Part three will be coming soon so make sure to subscribe to Jonathan's channel and keep your eye out on it.





Part three will be coming soon so make sure to subscribe to Jonathan's channel and keep your eye out on it.

Classic Dance Disco by DJjoecruz

This Mixshow has some great new top 40 remix and club dance songs that will deff get your toes tapping and your hands clapping. There is a couple Latin rhythm songs that will be sure to please. You know I have to add a fun remix of a Classic Dance Disco tune. Hope you like it and share it out with your friends and please check out the rest of my mixes on Podomatic.......Thanx....Cruz>>>>DJjoecruz




Thanks Cruz from Bear Talk Woof

Shea Scullin in commercial

Lets all congratulate Shea Scullin for the success of his commercial.   According to Shea it was really hard work.  The fact is that he completed the commercial and it was a success.  Good job, Shea.

Occupy Airwaves Vol 5- American Spring

Guys, here is Chris Ovide's Mix Occupy Airwaves Vol 5 - American spring



Occupy Airwaves Vol 5- American Spring

Bear Talk Woof yahoogroup

Bear Talk Woof

We now have a yahoogroup for all you bears and is ready to go.  I think it is a good idea to get in touch with every single bear rather than with certain sites which some who are not on.  

Goto the homepage 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/BearTalkWoof 
and join the site.


COME JOIN THE FUN!  WE ARE LOOKING FORWARD TO SEEING YOU THERE

Intro to Bear Talk Woof on Blog Talk Radio

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Geek Erotic Blog: Russell Crowe As Supermans Dad - YES, PLZ

Geek Erotic Blog: Russell Crowe As Supermans Dad - YES, PLZ: I dont think I need to type anything.. the picture says it all ;) Jor-El woof.

Bear Talk Woof reply to Jor-El woof. "The picture may probably say it all, however, he has a problem with gay people.....so we heard. The word has been around that he doesn't like gay people."

DJ Airrick (Eric Jones): HAPPY NEW YEAR! - Year End Podcast!

DJ Airrick (Eric Jones): HAPPY NEW YEAR! - Year End Podcast!: Hey guys, sorry for the lack of updates but Dec was a very busy month for me! I will started updating again regularly this week with new rel...

Daddies & Bears LOVER!: PhanteonBear - Mark Bishop

Daddies & Bears LOVER!: PhanteonBear - Mark Bishop: Download: http://adf.ly/4ziiG

Facebook Idiots

If you think that there are idiots on bear sites only, well then you are wrong. There are on Facebook as well. There are soo many idiots on there. Now, I am not the person who would add people to my facebook page. I added one guy who was in the same state as me so I figure it would be nice to get to know him. I didn't have any sex in my mind though. I don't have many friends here only one or two. Get this. This guy (Andy Hahn) adds me to his friends list, then moments later he takes me off.

WTF????????

I told him what's the point of adding someone when you are going to delete that person. I could never understand that. 

He then tells me that it wasn't that.

Well I would sure love to hear "what it is" then, because I don't have any other resolution why he even did that.

Why accept to start with. Hello? If he denied me, I would had understood it because people get denied all the time from being a friend. I then told him I suppose I would never understand why dumbass people accept then defriend. Which is why I am barely on Facebook anymore. 

But you know something I do have an answer to this issue. They only add you for one thing so they could look at your pictures and if they don't like, then they delete you moments later. Do you think I would be deleted if I was really big, fit and muscly? Oh hell no. No fucken way I would be deleted. Well I will have his face in my head because one day I will get where I want to get and that is more husky and fit. And you know something else, if he ends up requesting to friend me, I will deny his request. 

He then sent me a message "I accepted because I normally just do. After I had realized you were someone my ex cheated on me with while he and I were still together I just decided I didn't want that salt in a wound. just please let it be and please don't insult me."

Oh did I mention that I thanked him for the chat and Happy New Year.